3rd Sunday of Advent 2021
Zephaniah 3:14-18; “Psalm” = Isaiah 12:2-6; Phil 4:4-7; Luke 3:10-18
What sort of mood are you in? There is no doubt about the mood to which Holy Mother Church invites us today. This is Gaudete Sunday—Rejoice Sunday—and the Lectionary lays joy on with a trowel.
“Shout for joy” urges Zephaniah, “Rejoice, exult with all your heart”. And he depicts God too as being full of joy: “He will exult with joy over you...He will dance with shouts of joy for you.”
There is something beautiful about the idea of God dancing, and shouting with joy while He does it. I envisage God doing a sort of Highland Fling, with the odd yell and hoot thrown in.
In our refrain in what follows—not actually a psalm, but an extract from the Book of Isaiah—we exhort ourselves to “sing and shout for joy”, and we do it four times. Meanwhile, Isaiah goes on to tell us “With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation” before reaching the refrain which we have been using, and ordering “People of Zion, sing and shout for joy”.
Next comes Paul’s advice to the Christians at Philippi: “Rejoice in the Lord always—again I say rejoice”. This gives us a grand total of a dozen uses of the words “joy” and “rejoice” in the course of two prose passages and a would-be psalm.
So, rejoice! “I can’t” you may reply. “My pet budgie has just died screaming, I have trodden barefoot on broken glass, and my mother-in-law is staying over Christmas.”
More seriously, you may genuinely say “I have suffered bereavement” or “I am deeply depressed”. I heard from two people last week, men around the sixty mark, whom I taught in my early days as a priest. Both of them have been widowed in the past year, and are feeling the pain as each approaches his first Christmas without his spouse. To make things worse, one of them was woken by the police one night a few days ago to be informed that his younger brother had been found dead. He himself has now suffered a heart attack.
A few days later, I was asked to pray for a two year old boy who is on a ventilator suffering from leukaemia. Multiply these situations almost infinitely as you consider all the bereaved spouses, children, and parents around the world; all those in war zones; those suffering from hunger, disease, severe handicap, or depression; and ask “Where are such people to find joy?” Indeed, you may be asking it about yourself.
Beware! Do not try to come up with an easy, comfortable answer, because in such circumstances, no genuine answer is easy or comfortable. It may even be the case that there is no answer, easy or difficult. All that you can do is to hold that suffering person in your heart, your mind, and your prayer. If they are physically close to you, you may even hold them in your arms. Do not try to console them with clichés: silent, loving presence is a far better option.
So what price joy then? Remember that, like grief, joy goes very deep. Like grief, it comes upon us: it can’t be forced. Sometimes, we have to wait in patience, and gradually joy will seep through. Even in the darkest times, we have to cling, even if only by our fingertips, to trust in God, and the light will eventually dawn. And remember to be there, as a source of strength, for those from whom joy may seem to be very distant.